Mary Steenburgen Recalls Leaving ‘Puddle’ of Breastmilk on Oscars Stage After Welcoming Daughter Lilly: ‘I Was Freaking Out'
The actress shares daughter Lilly Walton, 43, and son Charlie McDowell, 41, with ex-husband Malcolm McDowell
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Lily McDowell and Mary SteenburgenMary Steenburgen will never forget the moment she won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actress — but not for the reason you'd think.
While chatting with her husband Ted Danson on the Friday, Nov. 11 episode of his podcast Where Everyone Knows Your Name, the actress, 71, shared a hilarious story from her experience at the Oscars in 1981 just two months after welcoming her daughter Lilly, now 43, with ex-husband Malcolm McDowell.
"I was so blessed I won," the actress. "At the end of the Oscars, everybody that had won was supposed to come out on stage. And so, Bo Goldman, who wrote that beautiful script that we were talking about — we came out together, and I had just had Lilly."
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Once Steenburgen entered the stage, she recalls, "Suddenly, Lilly needed to be fed. And I could feel the whole brunt of myself. You know, my milk came in. How can I say it other than that?"
The star says she was posing for the picture with the other Oscar winners "and it was all taking way longer than I thought it was going to," adding "I was freaking out."
Before she knew it, her breastmilk had formed a "puddle" on the stage. "I said, 'Bo, oh my God. Look,' she remembers. "There was a little bit of.. a puddle."
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Charlie McDowell, Lily Collins, Mary Steenburgen and Ted Danson attend the "Windfall" LA Special Screening on March 11, 2022.At the time, Goldman incorrectly assumed that the actress had peed on the floor. "He thought, 'Jesus. Why did she wet her pants?' " she recalls to Danson, laughing. "He goes, 'Why are you so scared? You already won.'"
"I said, 'I'm not scared. I need to go feed my daughter!'"
She adds that in the photo, "Luckily, you can't see anything because I put on an antique velvet coat, and it saved me."
The former couple are also parents to son Charlie McDowell, 41.
