Lindsie Chrisley Says She Is 'Not Wired' for Casual Sex: 'Be a Little Bit More Mature'
"How will you ever know unless you are committed to one person that that person is the person for you when you're getting fulfillment everywhere?" Chrisley said
Marcus Ingram/Getty
Lindsie ChrisleyLindsie Chrisley is opening up about her approach to dating.
On the Dec. 19 episode of her Coffee Convos podcast with Kailyn Lowry, the Chrisley Knows Best alum, 35, explained that, unlike Lowry, she doesn’t enjoy dating multiple people at once. Chrisley, who was married to Will Campbell for nine years before finalizing their divorce in October 2021, said she prefers serious relationships.
“I feel like I am so adamant about, either we're committed or we're not, and there are no expectations outside of a commitment,” she shared. “Because if you're out here just dipping it wherever, then you are getting fulfillment in different ways from each of those people that you are dating, I guess, in this dating culture, you're getting fulfillment from each of those things in a different way.”
She added: “How will you ever know unless you are committed to one person that that person is the person for you when you're getting fulfillment everywhere? Then you get a false sense of this fulfillment that you really don't have.”
While Lowry, 32, agreed “in theory,” she said putting pressure on a relationship from the start can lead people to lie.
“I'm not saying it's always men because I've done it myself, but I think more times than not, it's men over women that are not willing to be honest about it,” the Teen Mom star said. “Like, it sounds good to be like, we're either committed or we're not, but I feel like so many times men will say certain things and then their actions don't match. And so you think that you're committed, but they're actually just telling you what you wanna hear.”
“I don't wanna be f---ing around with anybody that's like that,” Chrisley replied. “Be a little bit more mature and let's be grown, please.”
When it comes to casual sex, Chrisley said she doesn’t have any interest in doing that either.
“Personally for me, I couldn't go out here and have sexual relations with one person and then, oh, tomorrow I'm going out on a date with this person, I'm gonna have sexual relations with that person,” she explained. “I just think that I'm not wired like that.”
Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.
She went on to say that dating with children adds another layer of difficulty to the process. As someone who has an 11-year-old son, Chrisley said she has more reason to only look for committed relationships.
“You have a different obligation to take those situations more seriously than just going out here, dating around, playing the field, doing whatever, when there are children that are involved,” she said.
Lowry, who has seven kids with four different men, joked that she did exactly that when she got divorced.
“I felt so liberated,” she said. “I was dating. I was seeing this person, that person. I don't know what the f— I was doing.”
Chrisley's last public relationship was with a man named Trent. However, in January, a source confirmed to PEOPLE that the pair had called it quits.
"Lindsie is taking time to process the events that unfolded and focusing on healing to be the best version of herself," a source close to the former couple previously shared.
“There was no cheating involved in the decision to split. An outside influence was a leading factor in the breakup," the insider continued. "She did not end her relationship to reconcile with her ex-husband, Will. They still have a positive coparenting relationship and are a support for one another as they continue their 13-year-long friendship."
Read the original article on People
