We were taught as kids never to show fear of a bully. Of course, the bully was not to know this, even if we were shaking in our boots. But adults shake in their boots, too! You are probably not dealing with a bullying or intrusive influence in the way you imagine. Instead, you likely have a concern that needs to be faced - and seeing it as exaggerated and in a less threatening light is the first step. View your free weekly destiny video.