And the Question of the Day is…should you put others' needs above yours or vice versa? You might have to do both but compromise only to a certain extent, Cancer. Ignoring needs that truly matter to you will only add a surge of fuel to resentment. By all means, be there for those who need you. But clarify where lines exist regarding what you will do and where you won't go above the call of duty. View your free weekly destiny video.